Q Dear Miss Abigail: My boyfriend is going away for a month and I was just wondering if you had any neat things that we could do to keep in touch. Plus, he’s sixteen and I’m thirteen so it’s really hard for me to trust him while he’s down there. Signed, Anonymous A Dear Anonymous: […]
Category: Dating
Advice for the daters in the crowd.
Everyone’s Afraid of Being Turned Down
Q Dear Miss Abigail: There is this girl that I know ~ she is very popular, but I am not. We are really good friends and I like her very much. I am afraid of being turned down and I need some advice on how to ask her out. How do I do it? Signed, […]
How Do I Get Him to Ask Me Out?
Q Dear Miss Abigail: I like a man who acts very aloof and distant. However, I know he likes me as well. I’ve tried giving hints to show my feelings. He seems to respond with mutual flirting but nothing ever comes of it. What do you suggest I do to get him to ask me […]
Could You Ask Me Out, Already?
Q Dear Miss Abigail: Okay, I like this guy. And we flirt a lot and all that. I know he likes me, and I know he knows I like him. But he will not ask me out! I just don’t understand. And I’m way to chicken to ask him out myself. I want him to […]
Making the First Move
Q Dear Miss Abigail: I really like this guy and I want him to ask me out. I think he like me because he flirts with me in our class. Is there anything I can do? Signed, Jane A Dear Jane: Take charge, young lady. It’s time to once again follow Ellen Peck’s girl-positive advice […]
Should Girls Ask Boys for Dates?
Shipley the Sheep, Dave the Gator, elk hunters in orange caps, and our favorite park ranger at Great Sand Dunes National Park. My, did I have fun while on vacation with my friends Molly and Liz. Our little “hen party” discussed many important topics while covering 1,700 miles of Western terrain. Among those: boys, sex, […]
Be Courteous
Hey kids, trying to figure out how to ask that cute girl out on a date? Follow this script and you’re sure to have success. 1967: Be Courteous As you ask a girl for a date, you should indicate that you really want to go out with her. Courtesy is very important when asking, for […]
Take Him Out to a Ball Game
Q Dear Miss Abigail: I broke up with my boyfriend last week, and I regret it. I want to ask him out again, but I want it to be really special and romantic. What is a really romantic thing I could do? Keep in mind I am fifteen. Signed, Confused A Dear Confused: Hmm… let […]
How Do I Ask Her Out?
Q Dear Miss Abigail: I like this girl in my class. I want to go to the movies with her. How do I ask her out? Signed, Kevin A Dear Kevin: Certainly everyone is aware of how terrifying (yet exciting) it can be to ask someone out. I found much more advice about acceptingdates, however, because […]
A Gentle “No,” “No,” and “No”
Q Dear Miss Abigail: I have this best friend in school and he is like a best mate to me, but he asked me out and I don’t feel the same way about him. I felt guilty refusing him, and every time we see each other we tried to avoid each other. I just wanted […]